Friday, February 4, 2011

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Re-Lilly: Celebrating 3000+ Re-Lilly Fans, Lilly Pulitzer Spring 2011 & Purselady Too Giveaway!

Re-Lilly: Celebrating 3000+ Re-Lilly Fans, Lilly Pulitzer Spring 2011 & Purselady Too Giveaway!

10 Reasons Why My Blog Makes Me Crazy

1.   I love to write my blog.
2.   My technological abilities are not in sync with my creativity.
3.   I never think it's as good as I would like it to be.
4.   I would like to spend all day on my blog....not happening!
5.   I feel frustrated that I don't spend enough time on my blog.
6.   Always want more followers...which sends me to #7
7.   It's kind of depressing that I don't get followers.
8.   That shouldn't matter to me if I love to write
9.    I always want to make it prettier but don't have time
10.  It's one more place that I can't be perfect!!!!!!!

10 Reasons Why I love to Blog

1.   
It's my own place to write. Which includes venting, observing, reminiscing, laughing at myself and the life I live

2.  
It allows me to be creative and learn new ways to be creative through writing, photography and computer

3.
I love telling stories and this is a place to do it when no one else will listen!

4.
I like making my kids crazy! They say that I'm too OLD to blog! That makes it more fun.

5.
It makes me think about things that might otherwise go unnoticed!

6.
Blogging is a connection to the outside world....even if no one is reading my stuff....it's out there in thte universe as they say!

7.
It makes for some very interesting conversation....or it can end a conversation in an instant!

8.
Blogging has opened me up to all kinds of people who are passionate about their interests.

9.
Sometimes, I see life differently because of my blog.....I take a photo because I think if I don't post this on my blog, it would seem that I made this up!

10.
It's pretty cool that I have managed to do something for almost a year and a half.....rather religiously....unless technology has gotten in my way....or I have gotten in my own way!

Thursday





Today is Thursday. It is 2 p.m. on Thursday. This is the end of the week to most. This is one week after our Grace's birthday. It has been a whirlwind. Actually, life is a whirlwind. It seems that one minute I was getting married to the love of my life, throwing that beautiful bouquet and 20 minutes later, our baby is blowing out the candles on her 16th birthday cake.




Really. REALLY. When our babies were born, I remember hearing friends and family say things like,"Oh, they grow so fast!"......"Treasure this time in your life"......"Enjoy the baby time because later.....".....on and on and on. I remember thinking. I do treasure this time. They grow so fast....it seemed that folks who had that bittersweet message to share had raised their children and were looking back to their baby days.



Well...here I am. A mom who has spent almost everyday with these babies since they were born. Wow....it really does go so fast. A minute ago, Biff and I were pulling Grace and T.J. in an L.L.Bean Sled and now they're talking about what kind of car they want! We went from Cozy Coupe to "Do you think I could get a Jeep?"

It is bittersweet. These days have been more than I could have dreamed of.....mostly the good....the love, the sweetness and the fun along the way. Even as I write, I do look back at those Kodak memories....you know...with the music, the shiny happy faces, the beautiful scenery, the adorable faces of families and puppies. That's the way we look back.















AND THEN, we have the other memories. The days where we didn't have a moment to get to the bathroom....and if we did, we had company...those innocent faces who just needed us nearby. The ringing doorbells that ended naptimes. The runny noses that turned into ear infections in the middle of the night. The tantrums. The broken bones. The tantrums. The homework. The cranky days.









Somehow, those days seem few. Somehow, memories allow us to see the joy of it all....and the difficult times mellow in our minds. Unless, of course, we look back. exaggerate and laugh at the whole adventure. And, it has been an adventure!





Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Another Snow Day

Snow day called today due to icy conditions this morning and more snow and ice this afternoon....soooooooooo, I met a friend for early morning coffee in town. That was a treat to get out early on one of many snow days.

I spent a few quiet moments in the library......to catch my breath after hearing the total of our overdue fees....$123.93! Phew! There were some movies that had been returned and some books on tape.......remember "Simplify Your Life" Ahhhhh...the ironies of life.

Beach Day

Everyday is beautiful at the beach! After coffee, errands and the library, I went home to get the dogs and took them to the beach.....hoping that it would be quiet and I could let the dogs run hard for some real exercise. With snow up to their ears, it's hard for them to plow through the deep, fluffy, white blanket we used to call lawn.

Snow and Sand

Snow at the beach. When he#@ freezes over......give you ice in the winter.....life in New England!

Running Wild at the Beach

Happy doggies!

Beach Day

Everyday is beautiful at the beach! After coffee, errands and the library, I went home to get the dogs and took them to the beach.....hoping that it would be quiet and I could let the dogs run hard for some real exercise. With snow up to their ears, it's hard for them to plow through the deep, fluffy, white blanket we used to call lawn.

Another Snow Day

Snow day called today due to icy conditions this morning and more snow and ice this afternoon....soooooooooo, I met a friend for early morning coffee in town. That was a treat to get out early on one of many snow days.

I spent a few quiet moments in the library......to catch my breath after hearing the total of our overdue fees....$123.93! Phew! There were some movies that had been returned and some books on tape.......remember "Simplify Your Life" Ahhhhh...the ironies of life.

Monday, January 31, 2011

Claire's Snowman


My niece just texted this photo to me. She built this enormous snowman on Sunday. We chatted on facebook tonight. I asked her to post her snowman on facebook.

My niece is 26. I love her spirit. I always have. She has always been a gift in my life. My niece Claire taught me to get outside of myself.....when I was in my twenties......and relatively self involved.

Claire changed me. She was the first person in my family who was younger than me. She showed me the world....through the sweet innocence of a child. Her world changed mine.

Children have that kind of power! They have power they are unaware of.....it is magnificent power. Love. Sweet. Gentle. Pure. With no expectations. More of a gift! Unaware of their power, they smile at us or tell us a story...and we are captured by them....and their world.

Now Claire is in her twenties. I'm delighted to see her spirit as I know it. Sweet. I'm tickled that she texted her snowman to me. Did I ever tell you that she texts me a photo of her Christmas tree every year? After it's decorated. I love her spirit! And I love my connection with my twenty something niece ......she is a gift in my life.